Before You Give Up, Remember... Pt 2

Continued from a previous post. The blog entry seemed to long, so I broke it into two postings.

21. After his first audition, Sidney Poitier was told by the casting director, "Why don't you stop wasting people's time and go out and become a dishwasher or something?" It was at that moment, recalls Poitier, that he decided to devote his life to acting.

22. When Lucille Ball began studying to be actress in 1927, she was told by the head instructor of the John Murray Anderson Drama School, "Try any other profession."

23. The first time Jerry Seinfeld walked on-stage at a comedy club as a professional comic, he looked out at the audience, froze, and forgot the English language. He stumbled through "a minute-and a half" of material and was jeered offstage. He returned the following night and closed his set to wild applause.

24. In 1944, Emmeline Snively, director of the Blue Book Modeling Agency, told modeling hopeful Norma Jean Baker, "You'd better learn secretarial work or else get married." I'm sure you know that Norma Jean was Marilyn Monroe. Now . . . who was Emmeline Snively?

25. After Harrison Ford's first performance as a hotel bellhop in the film Dead Heat on a Merry-Go-Round, the studio vice-president called him in to his office. "Sit down kid," the studio head said, "I want to tell you a story. The first time Tony Curtis was ever in a movie he delivered a bag of groceries. We took one look at him and knew he was a movie star." Ford replied, "I thought you were spossed to think that he was a grocery delivery boy." The vice president dismissed Ford with "You ain't got it kid , you ain't got it ... now get out of here."

26. Charlie Chaplin was initially rejected by Hollywood studio chiefs because his pantomime was considered "nonsense."

27. Decca Records turned down a recording contract with the Beatles with the unprophetic evaluation, "We don't like their sound. Groups of guitars are on their way out." After Decca rejected the Beatles, Columbia records followed suit.

28. In 1954, Jimmy Denny, manager of the Grand Ole Opry, fired Elvis Presley after one performance. He told Presley, "You ain't goin' nowhere, son. You ought to go back to drivin' a truck."

29. Beethoven handled the violin awkwardly and preferred playing his own compositions instead of improving his technique. His teacher called him "hopeless as a composer." And, of course, you know that he wrote five of his greatest symphonies while completely deaf.

30. A Paris art dealer refused Picasso shelter when he asked if he could bring in his paintings from out of the rain. One hopes that there is justice in this world and that the art dealer eventually went broke.

31. Van Gogh sold only one painting during his life. And this to the sister of one of his friends for 400 francs (approximately $50). This didn't stop him from completing over 800 paintings.

32. Stravinsky was run out of town by an enraged audience and critics after the first performance of the Rite of Spring.

33. Leo Tolstoy flunked out of college. He was described as both "unable and unwilling to learn." No doubt a slow developer.

34. Louisa May Alcott, author of Little Women, was encouraged to find work as a servant by her family.

35. Emily Dickinson had only seven poems published in her lifetime.

36. 15 publishers rejected a manuscript by e. e. cummings. When he finally got it published by his mother, the dedication, printed in uppercase letters, read WITH NO THANKS TO . . . followed by the list of publishers who had rejected his prized offering. Nice going Eddie. Thanks for illustrating that nobody loses all the time.

37. 21 publishers rejected Richard Hooker's humorous war novel, M*A*S*H. He had worked on it for seven years.

38. 27 publishers rejected Dr. Seuss's first book, To Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street.

39. Jack London received six hundred rejection slips before he sold his first story.

40. Gertrude Stein submitted poems to editors for nearly 20 years before one was finally accepted. See . . . a rose is a rose.

41. I bet you didn't know that John Milton wrote Paradise Lost 16 years after losing his eyesight

information gathered from: http://des.emory.edu/mfp/efficacynotgiveup.html

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And here's a look at some classic books that were rejected!

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1712987/classic_books_that_were_rejected_by.html

Before You Give Up, Remember... Pt. 1

Did you know that before the book Chicken Soup for the Soul was finally picked up, it had been rejected 140 times? Since then Chicken Soup for the Soul series of books has sold over 80 million copies! Here are some more reasons not to give up. You don't have to read them all in one sitting. Read a few and come back later to read some more. But do read them and do take them to heart. 

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1.    As a young man, Abraham Lincoln went to war a captain and returned a private. Afterwards, he was a failure as a businessman. As a lawyer in Springfield, he was too impractical and temperamental to be a success.

 He turned to politics and was defeated in his first try for the legislature, again defeated in his first attempt to be nominated for congress, defeated in his application to be commissioner of the General Land Office, defeated in the senatorial election of 1854, defeated in his efforts for the vice-presidency in 1856, and defeated in the senatorial election of 1858. At about that time, he wrote in a letter to a friend, "I am now the most miserable man living. If what I feel were equally distributed to the whole human family, there would not be one cheerful face on the earth."

2.    Winston Churchill failed sixth grade. He was subsequently defeated in every election for public office until he became Prime Minister at the age of 62. He later wrote, "Never give in, never give in, never, never, never, never - in nothing, great or small, large or petty - never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense. Never, Never, Never, Never give up."

3.    Charles Darwin gave up a medical career and was told by his father, "You care for nothing but shooting, dogs and rat catching." In his autobiography, Darwin wrote, "I was considered by all my masters and my father, a very ordinary boy, rather below the common standard of intellect." Clearly, he evolved.

4.    Thomas Edison's teachers said he was "too stupid to learn anything." He was fired from his first two jobs for being "non-productive." As an inventor, Edison made 1,000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. When a reporter asked, "How did it feel to fail 1,000 times?" Edison replied, "I didn’t fail 1,000 times. The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps."

5.    Albert Einstein did not speak until he was 4-years-old and did not read until he was 7. His parents thought he was "sub-normal," and one of his teachers described him as "mentally slow, unsociable, and adrift forever in foolish dreams." He was expelled from school and was refused admittance to the Zurich Polytechnic School. He did eventually learn to speak and read. Even to do a little math.

6.    Henry Ford failed and went broke five times before he succeeded.

7.    R. H. Macy (Macy’s Deparment Store) failed seven times before his store in New York City caught on.

8.    When Bell telephone was struggling to get started, its owners offered all their rights to Western Union for $100,000. The offer was disdainfully rejected with the pronouncement, "What use could this company make of an electrical toy."

9.    Rocket scientist Robert Goddard found his ideas bitterly rejected by his scientific peers on the grounds that rocket propulsion would not work in the rarefied atmosphere of outer space.
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10. Daniel Boone was once asked by a reporter if he had ever been lost in the wilderness. Boone thought for a moment and replied, "No, but I was once bewildered for about three days."

11. An expert said of Vince Lombardi: "He possesses minimal football knowledge and lacks motivation." Lombardi would later write, "It's not whether you get knocked down; it's whether you get back up."

12. Michael Jordan and Bob Cousy were each cut from their high school basketball teams. Jordan once observed, "I've failed over and over again in my life. That is why I succeed."

13. Babe Ruth is famous for his past home run record, but for decades he also held the record for strikeouts. He hit 714 home runs and struck out 1,330 times in his career (about which he said, "Every strike brings me closer to the next home run."). And didn't Mark McGwire break that strikeout record? (John Wooden once explained that winners make the most errors.)

14. Hank Aaron went 0 for 5 his first time at bat with the Milwaukee Braves.

15. Tom Landry, Chuck Noll, Bill Walsh, and Jimmy Johnson accounted for 11 of the 19 Super Bowl victories from 1974 to 1993. They also share the distinction of having the worst records of first-season head coaches in NFL history - they didn't win a single game.

16. Johnny Unitas's first pass in the NFL was intercepted and returned for a touchdown. Joe Montana's first pass was also intercepted.

17. During his first season Troy Aikman threw twice as many interceptions (18) as touchdowns (9) . . . oh, and he didn't win a single game. You think there's a lesson here?

18. Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because "he lacked imagination and had no good ideas." He went bankrupt several times before he built Disneyland. In fact, the proposed park was rejected by the city of Anaheim on the grounds that it would only attract riffraff.

19. Charles Schultz had every cartoon he submitted rejected by his high school yearbook staff. Oh, and Walt Disney wouldn't hire him.

20. After Fred Astaire's first screen test, the memo from the testing director of MGM, dated 1933, read, "Can't act. Can't sing. Slightly bald. Can dance a little." He kept that memo over the fire place in his Beverly Hills home. Astaire once observed that "when you're experimenting, you have to try so many things before you choose what you want, that you may go days getting nothing but exhaustion." And here is the reward for perseverance: "The higher up you go, the more mistakes you are allowed. Right at the top, if you make enough of them, it's considered to be your style."


information gathered from: http://des.emory.edu/mfp/efficacynotgiveup.html

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And here's a look at some classic books that were rejected!

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1712987/classic_books_that_were_rejected_by.html

Father Thoughts - To The Man Who Would Date My Daughter...

I was just thinking so I wrote this down. It's not complete and this is not directed to any particular young man. I may do the same for the woman who would date my son. 

To the man who would date my daughter...

Do not think that the word "man" is a generic term that applies to any male. More than anything, I want my daughter to have a relationship with God and a relationship with a good man. If you are a little boy in men's clothing, please keep moving. If you don't know what I mean by "a good man", please return to your play ground of little girls who think you rudeness, arrogance, and stupidity is cute. Come back when you grow up. 

Do not think that you love her more because you hold her hand now. I've been doing that for years; almost as long as you've been alive. And, if you mess up, I will be the one doing it again.

Do not think that you know her better because of your "special bond". You are not the first boyfriend who thought that. But when the dust clears, I'm the one still around.

Do not think that, if she and her parents have issues, that it is ok to be silent or encourage her to not work things out with us. Teaching her to hate or become distant from someone who loves her may be sowing the seeds of your own destruction. What will she do when you are suddenly that person who "doesn't understand her"? And that will happen someday.

Do not think that helping her get around rules, lie to her parents or hide the truth "so she won't get in trouble" is doing her any favors. Someday you may have a similar situation, and you have now shown her how to handle you; that hiding from and  lying to someone you love is ok. 

Do not think that we (her parents) are oblivious to sex. Just because you think she's ready, doesn't mean she's ready. And just because we don't think that you should, doesn't mean we're old or old fashioned. If you believe sexual purity and commitment are arbitrary religious rules not to be considered important, I pray she remembers that you think this way before she considers dating you or especially before she commits to you in marriage. Because if you think that way now...

Lastly,

Do not think that, because you are now the man in her life, I am not there. I may step back and even sit in the shadows. But she is my daughter under my protection until she becomes your wife.  And even then, she is still my daughter. 

Fish Feet And Bumpers

And they talk about Christianity stealing people's stuff. LOL!

I saw a fish with feet.

Saw it on the back of a car. You've seen it. It's the evolutionary slap at Christianity. Lol, right? But maybe, it's saying more than they realize.

It seems, according to evolutionary thought formula, religion = faith. And  I agree to a point. I do think there's more to it. I believe there are tangible powerful reasons to be, at the least, agnostic and at the most Christian. But that's for another post.

I saw the fish with feet and thought, "so really, are you saying that your evolutionary feet are carrying a lot of faith around?" Let's face it, evolutionists have a lot more to deal with than "God created heaven and earth."

First, they've got nothing. No, I'm not being insulting. There's only two options that I know. There was always something or once upon a time there was nothing. Either nothing begat everything or everything has always been everything. Both theories require a huge leap of faith. Yep, faith. I'm starting to see why those feet had a fish on top of it.

So let's say there's nothing. Then, BANG, it explodes! Wait. Did I say that right? I think I did. What exploded? Nothing. I had one person explain to me that there was the potential energy for the nothing to be something. Really? And he said that with a straight face.

Ok. That won't work, so let's say there was something. Everything  was compressed into a dot no larger than the period on this page. No, that 's not some straw man argument I just set up. It was actually in some science text books. So then my evolutionary friends ask me, where did God come from. I say, "Dude, I hate to interrupt you but, you've some got a dot or something in the middle of your clean nothingness. Where did that come from?" Problems upon problems and we haven't even talked about orbits and quasars and feathers.

So, fish feet, you just keep hanging on that bumper reminding us all that your evolutionary appendages are carrying around a lot of baggage; or those of us who are religious like to call it, faith.

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 “Today, the theory of evolution is an accepted fact for everyone but a fundamentalist minority, whose objections are based not on reasoning but on doctrinaire adherence to religious principles”
 James D. Watson

REALLY? Mr. Watson?


Stephen Hawking - "the actual point of creation lies outside the scope of presently known laws of physics,"

A less well-known but very distinguished cosmologist, Professor Alan Guth from MIT, says the "instant of creation remains unexplained."

http://www.leaderu.com/real/ri9404/bigbang.html

I Forgot My Shoes - Blessin' or Lesson?

Disclaimer: These are not my feet.

I forgot my shoes. Yes, I did. I like to drive with my feet au natural!  Some people like their sandals and flip flops. My feet like to kick it naked. (Which is amazing because they are so ugly! Sorry feet. You know it's true.)

A few days ago, I pulled up to plant where I work as a graphic artist, climbed out of the car and suddenly noticed the hard rough gravely texture of our parking lot. I shuffled a few steps and realized, "Silly me! No shoes." So I tiptoed across the asphalt, back to the car, where, after a frantic search...I found nothin'! No shoes anywhere.

I didn't want to be late, so I sat outside in my little blue Ford Contour trying to figure out my next move. I remembered that in one of my more ADD moments, I had found a pair of shoes scrunched up under my front tire a long time ago. At the time, I thought that my son may have dropped them, so I tossed them in the trunk where, like most of the other stuff in there, they would probably never be seen again.

"Why did I do that?" you ask. What? You want reasons? Didn't I just say I was ADD? It was there. So I did it. Then forgot I did it. Squirrel!!!!

I scrambled to the back of my car, threw open the trunk and there they sat peeking out from underneath all the other things I've happened to find and toss in there. (Yes, I have a lot of junk in my trunk. I said that for all of you who were thinking it...  and have too much class and good taste to say it.)

Anyway, I grabbed them, and with great effort, proceeded to successfully squeeze my size 11 feet into these tattered old size 9 1/2 shoes.

Proudly, yet painfully, I dragged myself up the outside stairs, through the plant, and eventually fell into my chair where I immediately ripped the torturous tennis shoes from my throbbing feet! The rest of the day, I spent in my chair not willing to expose my naked feet to the world.

While sitting there, I thought about providence. Who would have known that during some mental break months ago, the strange shoes I collected would be there for me in my time of need. What a blessing!

That was my first thought anyway. Then I came to my senses.

The reality is, bad planning, distraction, and disorganization led to a situation where I had to suffer the painful consequences and embarrassment of wearing shoes that were a size too small so that I could sneak quietly to my seat and avoid my friends and co-workers.

The shoes, painful though they were, may have been a blessing I received, but the situation, was a lesson to be learned.We call them blessings, but sometimes, it's purely mercy! Someone upstairs is having pity on us because of our bad management of time, resources, etc. And that's ok, but we'll never grow if we don't learn to know the difference between a blessin' and an lesson.

We must be careful that, when God pulls us out of the pit we take a moment from the celebration to listen to what He has to say. Can you hear? I think I do. I think I hear a still small voice is saying....

WILL YOU PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM THAT PIT!

Random Stuff From My Face

The premise is simple. Sometimes I say stuff on FB for better or worse that helps people, makes them laugh, makes them think.... etc. So I'll post that stuff here, sometimes in long form. I get ideas. I throw them here. I used to have blog called Random Ramblings. That's kind of what this is... except, this is just random stuff from my face. So let's go.